Profile : lecturer
Posted by: Self
Last Online: Friday, October 20, 2006
I'm a warm, bubbly, funny(& playful), sociable, active, giving woman who has a lot to offer. I have blue-green eyes, and straight, shoulder-length, dirty blond hair. I love people (& most people se...
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| I'm a warm, bubbly, funny(& playful), sociable, active, giving woman who has a lot to offer. I have blue-green eyes, and straight, shoulder-length, dirty blond hair. I love people (& most people seem to enjoy my company, or so I've been told many times) & animals & I'm a big animal advocate & do a lot of charity work to help & protect all kinds of animals, but particularly stray cats & dogs. I've also been helping an overseas Sri Lankan family - tsunami victims. Although I'm not a professional singer, I often sing to raise money for charity benefits (I love dancing as well). I love the outdoors & go camping (just overnight)on the beach (I'm an avid swimmer & biginner diver) or in the desert a few times a year. I enjoy long walks (short hikes) & travelling (short trips) & learning about other cultures. Having been brought up in an ethnic area in Montreal, Canada, I speak 3 other languages besides English (French, Italian & Polish)& I'm trying to learn Spanish & Arabic. Although I'm a proud Canadian & go back to visit my family for 2 months every summer, I don't plan on moving back to Canada if I can help it. I'm very fed up of the long, cold winters & high taxes. I'm now trying to figure out where I'd like to eventually settle down in. I come from a working class family, so I have a strong work ethic & have worked hard to be in a stable financial situation (I have a degree in counselling, education & Master's in Applied Linguistics) & expect it from my partner as well. I also work hard on my health & appearance & always try to look my best, & yes, I have a weakness for fashion. I'm hoping to find a fashion-conscious mate (although it's not that important). I do need a mate who is as spiritual as I am (no, I don't go to church every week, but I attend the occasional woman's Bible study group). I need someone who will encourage & hopefully help me in my mission to make the world a better place to live in (no, I'm not a preacher, nor a fanatic). Finally, I don't want any children of my own, but won't mind maybe adopting. I don't have a problem admitting my faults & trying to improve myself, but I have a big problem with lazy, selfish, jealous & dishonest people like to take advantage of others especially since I'm a giver. I've had 2 common law relationships some time ago, so I know what it's like to live with someone & the need for open communication, hard work & sacrifice. I can be a domestic housewife type, but I'd rather pay someone else to do the mundane work, so I can have more time relaxing & spending quality time with people who matter, lie a mate. I love eating out (not necessarily to expensive restaurants) or stay in with a gourmet pizza to watch a movie. |
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| I'm not just looking for a man, I'm looking for someone who is compatible with me & someone who has 'chemistry' with me. Two people can have lots in common, but have no chemistry, so trying to find a partner over the Internet is a difficult concept for me, but as a Canadian expat living in the middle of the desert, I don't have a choice (yes, I'm willing to relocate as long as I can find decent work). I'm looking for another expat (who isn't ready to settle down yet in one place for the rest of his life), someone who has similar (Western) values especially some old-fashion values like honesty, integrety, reliability, values a commitment to one person, enjoys working without being a workaholic, loves life, people & seriously wants to contribute to society & in making the world a better place at some level. Someone who is strong, independent (no mama's boy) full of life & energy & has a sense of adventure, playfulness, & most of all - a great sense of humor (I love to laugh!). I'm sorry, but I can't relate to quiet, insecure, jealous, stingy, self-centered, agressive power/money hungry men. I need a manly man who is not afraid of being in touch with his feminine side. I'm looking for a relatively mentally & physically healthy man (such as myself!). I've left the counselling field years ago, so I don't want to be someone's therapist (been there, done that). yes, I'm asking for a lot, but I'm willing to give a lot. An experienced, well-balanced, mature man can easily have all these qualities & more. I'm a big optemist. Oh, and big bonus points if you like to cook (I'll clean up!) |
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